Husband Tells Wife ‘It’s Me Or The Dogs’, She Chooses The Dogs
A woman has decided to end her 25-year-long marriage after her husband gave her a highly unusual ultimatum.
53-year-old Mike told 49-year-old wife Liz Haslam that she had to make a very difficult decision; pick between him or her 30 dogs.
As many canine lovers will understand, Liz decided to pick the dogs over her beloved; telling her disgruntled husband to sling his hook.
She – perhaps unsurprisingly – hasn’t heard from her estranged spouse in the 18 months since the split, but is feeling pretty positive about her drastic decision.
My husband said it is me or the dogs. I haven’t seen or heard from him since.
I thought after 25 years, he should know giving up the dogs was not what my intentions were.
He just got to the point where he had enough and he wanted to slow down.
But I wasn’t prepared to give it all up. So he decided to go, and obviously that was his choice.
The couple – who share a 22-year-old son by the name of Ollie – met when Liz was just 16. She left home to live with him after completing her school education, and they tied the knot in January 1991.
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Liz established a successful boarding kennel business after the family moving into a two-bedroom farmhouse in Barnham, Suffolk, complete with half an acre of land.
She also set up BedforBullies, an organisation which rescues Bull Terriers, and began fostering dozens of dogs; many of which had medical and/or behavioural issues.
Liz is presently fostering 30 rescue dogs with at least half having demanding needs.
Five dogs are deaf, with two having only one eye. Three animals are ex-fighting dogs, four have defects and one suffers from brain damage.
Unfortunately, Liz’s unwavering passion for the animals put a strain on the relationship.
According to Liz:
We just drifted more and more apart. He was heavily into his work and it left me with nothing to do.
I didn’t want to be a work widow so I buried myself in my dogs.
Dedicated Liz spends about 18 hours a day taking care of her beloved dogs; walking them four times each day.
Liz Haslam with some of her bullies…
It's only 5 but getting 5 to pose is hard enough!
— Bedsforbullies (@bedsforbullies) June 4, 2018
BedforBullies reportedly ‘purely relies on donations,’ taking on animals which other rescues wouldn’t.
The kennel business only has seven spaces to let, and doesn’t cover all of the costs required, leaving Liz saddled with a vets’ bill of over £4,000.
Furthermore, she is paying rent arrears on her £800-a-month cottage; with the landlord now demanding she vacate the property within the year.
Della and Dotster the ex bait dogs with Liz Haslam who has bought them back to health and happiness pic.twitter.com/m0fmkHYo4V
— Bedsforbullies (@bedsforbullies) September 27, 2014
Despite these challenges this ultimate ‘dog person’ is happy, explaining:
I have re-homed so many dogs and now I am looking for a home.
I have chosen to do this. I love it.
Elsie & Hooch!
They are in need of a loving forever home! 💖🐶❤🐶
Please contact us if you're interested in either of them…
— Bedsforbullies (@bedsforbullies) June 7, 2018
So the question remains, who would you pick if push came to shove, dogs or spouse?
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